Why Create a Family Business Employment Policy?

• Establish clear family employment policies to help strengthen governance, mitigate conflict, and support long-term business continuity.
• Define transparent hiring, compensation, and advancement criteria for family members to enhance credibility with non-family employees.
• Formalize training, leadership development, and exit strategies to prepare family talent for long-term growth and succession planning.

One of the key revenue drivers and most important assets of a successful business is its people. You call it human capital for a reason. Whether your business is a family business or not, the importance of your people doesn’t change—but the dynamics of the relationships often do. In Good to Great, author Jim Collins uses the metaphor of a bus: you need the right people on the bus, the right people in the right seats, and the wrong people off the bus—only then can you drive the bus in the right direction.

One way to get the right family members on the bus and in the right seats is by using a family employment policy. There are several benefits to consider when determining if you should create one for your family business:

Creating family harmony: Creating a family employment policy requires making tough decisions and drawing clear lines—but that’s also why it can uncover a path to family harmony. If you put a policy in place long before it’s time to hire a family member, you give everyone clear, unambiguous guidelines so the decision isn’t perceived as personal or targeted to a particular individual. When you create the policy proactively, it’s often easier to make decisions in advance than to form a policy in reaction to someone or something.

Attracting and retaining non-family employees: A policy that clearly lays out expectations for hiring and promoting family members supports transparency and integrity in your human resource practices, and that clarity may be welcomed by employees who are not part of the family.

Positioning your family for long-term growth: A strong family employment policy can help position the family members you do hire for long-term growth by having distinct and actionable provisions in place.

Once you’ve determined that a family employment policy would be a beneficial tool, the first step is to begin to develop one through open dialogue with your family, so all affected individuals have a voice in the process. That input can help create buy-in for the final policy, which makes it easier to implement. Once you finalize the policy, make sure you communicate it to all employees—both family and non-family members.

The easiest place to start is to state the purpose of your employment policy, which should ideally reflect your family’s values and goals. This can be an important North star and focal point for your employees.  

Next, you can include the conditions of employment. Examples include: Who is eligible for employment—will you employ in-laws? Does an open position need to exist for a family member to enter the business, or will you create positions for them? Do you require family members to work elsewhere before joining the family business? If so, how many years of experience must they have before entering? Do you require family members to begin at specific entry points (for example, everyone starts by answering phones)? Will you require family members to be supervised by non-family members, at least initially? Depending on the size of your business and the ratio of family to non-family employees, that last condition can be more difficult to achieve.

Another section you can include covers education and training. It can address topics like required formal education, degrees, or certifications needed before or during employment. You can also outline the outside experience you require, as well as any in-house, on-the-job training program. This matters because new family-member employees often need to gain acceptance from non-family employees when they enter the business. When you clarify the outside skills and experience a family-member employee brings to the role, that family member can build credibility with colleagues.

If you have family members who may be part of your future leadership, consider defining an on-the-job rotation through specific departments so they gain a full understanding of the company. You can also create a formal mentorship program. If you plan for a non-family employee to mentor a family member, be transparent about expectations for both employees to help reduce potential conflict. It can be detrimental if the non-family employee feels they’re being asked to groom their replacement.

Also, keep fanfare to a minimum when a family member enters the business. You help them gain acceptance from new colleagues when you treat them like any other new employee.

That idea—treating family members like any other employee—leads into compensation. It’s generally recommended that you set salaries for family-member employees to be comparable to other employees based on skill and experience. That may mean different family members earn different salaries. While it sounds simple, you may find it difficult (especially as a parent) to pay your children different salaries when you’re trying to be fair and equal.

Another section to include addresses exiting the business. You want the right people on the bus, but you also need a plan for getting the wrong people off the bus. If you hire a family member and it’s not a good fit, you’ll want a clear policy for how that individual leaves the business. This can become tricky when employment and ownership overlap, which is why it’s important to address before there is an issue.

The easiest place to start is to state the purpose of your employment policy, which should ideally reflect your family’s values and goals. This can be an important North star and focal point for your employees.  

Next, you can include the conditions of employment. Examples include: Who is eligible for employment—will you employ in-laws? Does an open position need to exist for a family member to enter the business, or will you create positions for them? Do you require family members to work elsewhere before joining the family business? If so, how many years of experience must they have before entering? Do you require family members to begin at specific entry points (for example, everyone starts by answering phones)? Will you require family members to be supervised by non-family members, at least initially? Depending on the size of your business and the ratio of family to non-family employees, that last condition can be more difficult to achieve.

Another section you can include covers education and training. It can address topics like required formal education, degrees, or certifications needed before or during employment. You can also outline the outside experience you require, as well as any in-house, on-the-job training program. This matters because new family-member employees often need to gain acceptance from non-family employees when they enter the business. When you clarify the outside skills and experience a family-member employee brings to the role, that family member can build credibility with colleagues.

If you have family members who may be part of your future leadership, consider defining an on-the-job rotation through specific departments so they gain a full understanding of the company. You can also create a formal mentorship program. If you plan for a non-family employee to mentor a family member, be transparent about expectations for both employees to help reduce potential conflict. It can be detrimental if the non-family employee feels they’re being asked to groom their replacement.

Also, keep fanfare to a minimum when a family member enters the business. You help them gain acceptance from new colleagues when you treat them like any other new employee.

That idea—treating family members like any other employee—leads into compensation. It’s generally recommended that you set salaries for family-member employees to be comparable to other employees based on skill and experience. That may mean different family members earn different salaries. While it sounds simple, you may find it difficult (especially as a parent) to pay your children different salaries when you’re trying to be fair and equal.

Another section to include addresses exiting the business. You want the right people on the bus, but you also need a plan for getting the wrong people off the bus. If you hire a family member and it’s not a good fit, you’ll want a clear policy for how that individual leaves the business. This can become tricky when employment and ownership overlap, which is why it’s important to address before there is an issue.

If you already have a policy in place, you can take a few additional steps beyond reviewing it against the topics above. First, ask whether you’ve done communication or leadership assessments of your family employees—particularly those you anticipate becoming the next generation of leaders. Understanding communication and leadership styles can help you avoid future conflict, and it can also support an eventual leadership transition. You may find it difficult to turn over the reins to someone with a different style; assessments can help you recognize the strengths of multiple styles and support a smoother transition. Finally, as retirement approaches for senior leaders, create clarity and transparency around your succession timeline. If senior leaders stay on too long, your successor may become frustrated—and other employees may experience uncertainty when they want stability at work.

Developing your employment policy together, as a family, can help to not only set clear expectations, but foster open and honest communication to help your business thrive in the years ahead.

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